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| ageofillusion |
Posted: Dec 21, 2006 11:27 pm |
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桃ノ花ビラ

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You ever wonder if there really is more to this life? I have to admit, if there isn't then I'm rather dissapointed. Every now and then for the briefest moment I'm filled with emotions that would make me feel like there is something greater out there, but they are so quickly robbed from me I can't put any faith in them. Sometimes, actually most of the time I find myself rather convinced the atheists are right, in that you live, you die, thats the end and don't cry. People tell me otherwise, and then in there own darkness doubt it themselves. In the metiphorical night I think we all doubt it, and when despair touches us we know not what to do, so we run to what ever hope we can grab hold of, disregarding logic in the desire to stop feeling such pain. People talk of happiness, and I don't think they know what it is. I think it was best put by whoever said "Ask yourself if you are happy, and you cease to be so". Basiclly thats saying that only through ignorence can happiness be attained. But if happiness is what it seems to be, nothing more then chemicals, it seems rather odd that despair ever enters our heart. If there is no point, no greater purpose and reward, then why would anyone give a fuck that there isn't? If we truly are just living to die then why would we ever desire anything greater? It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly? It seems almost to contridict evolution itself, as the suicide rate continues to increase due to the despair caused by our desire for more than what is. Maybe I'm just to stupid to understand, maybe I'm cursed to have to deal with the fact that my reach is much further then my grasp mentally speaking. I just wish I knew. I wish I knew that if I could just walk the hard path a little longer, I will will meet up with my destiny along the way.
What do you think though? Because I can't not think about it anymore these days, and I'm running out of answers to shut myself up. So if anybody has an ounce of wisdom, I'll gladly repay it with a thousand pounds of gratitude. I'm sorry by the way if this post seems out of place here, but for some reason I can't think of a group of people whose responses I would value more right now then those of the fans of such a beautiful artist as Ai. It just feels like if hope is on the web to be found at all, this is just a good a starting place as any. |
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| Tatsuka Ito |
Posted: Dec 21, 2006 11:34 pm |
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フレンジャー

Joined: 28 Nov 2006
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I dont know, i dont really need any meaning. i was born, i live, i shall die. it will do me no use to ponder why such events have occured, i do not care. i simply do not wish to spoil my short existence with such time-wasting thoughts.
basically, i like my small world, and i dont really mind being "in denial" or "futile".
though this is not an answer, its just an opinion. |
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| davedim |
Posted: Dec 21, 2006 11:39 pm |
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フレンジャー

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I think that my reason for living is to... bust out of the loop.
To transcend tedium.
On the one hand people are scared of the unknown. On the other hand people are chasing illusionary goals.
This cycle perpetuates itself as people run away from what they fear and run toward what they desire, never escaping or fulfilling except for in short-term stimulating experiences.
Meanwhile, the unknown has done nothing to warrant it being something worth fearing
and everything we could possibly want/need is well within reach on this planet
The only way out of that loop is to eventually be crushed by it or to literally bust out of it.
I'm aiming for the latter.
To bust out the loop/prison - a person needs to recognize that they are in a prison. |
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| ageofillusion |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 12:02 am |
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桃ノ花ビラ

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| You don't sound like your in denial Tatsuka. Rather you sound frustratingly smart. The buddists think kinda the same thing, you can waste your life searching for answers you're to dumb to understand anyway, or you can live your life instead. Sadly I can't live without knowing and be content. I wish I could. |
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| ageofillusion |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 12:04 am |
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桃ノ花ビラ

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| Bust out? Sounds a little unlikely. But if you could make a plan, I'd probably set the charges. |
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| flyingcupcake |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 12:15 am |
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金魚花火

Joined: 17 Nov 2006
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This is something it seems that you could ponder for ages, it's so complicated
For me, I guess the only answer really is existance of a higher power. I've got to believe in God...the reason being a number of the things you said:
1."if happiness is what it seems to be, nothing more then chemicals, it seems rather odd that despair ever enters our heart."- that's a question I've often asked. If we're nothing but sacks of chemicals and flesh, then how can our feelings be so strong? If life is essentially an "accident", then why do we love so deeply or feel such pain? It just doesn't make sense to me.
2. "It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly?"- That's a huge question- if we really are just here on accident, for no purpose at all, why do we work so hard to survive? Why do so many people suffer through each day and continue on living, even though life brings them pain? We were built with a desire to create and to love and to do something with our lives...but who or what gave us that desire?
I find it impossible to accept the idea that we just landed here, the result of a series of random events and chemical reactions. I can accept the idea of evolution and all that scientific stuff, but I also think there's got to be a Creator behind it all, and a greater purpose for which we all live. I think that each of us is here for a specific reason and it's up to us to figure out what that reason is.
Of course, that's just what I think.
You're pondering some huge questions. They're completely mind boggling, but they're things that I think about all the time. I encourage you to take heart and think it over a while longer...you'll find an answer eventually Of course, discussing it with people (like you're doing now) can be a good thing, too
If you want someone to ponder this with, or even just someone to bounce ideas off of, feel free to PM me about it- I love discussing stuff like this! |
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| ageofillusion |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 12:18 am |
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桃ノ花ビラ

Joined: 27 Oct 2006
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| Greatly appreciated cupcake |
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Posted: Dec 22, 2006 1:16 am |
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クムリウタ

Joined: 07 Feb 2006
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I'm dead solid atheist, so yep, nothing out there for me.
I just want to live my life so that in the end I'll be relatively satisfied, meeting my own standards and goals set and influenced various things such as social expectations.
Please do not tell me there is life after death. In a way, I'm selfish and weak. I always feel that if it gets too unbearable, I can just die, and it'll be over. But if you tell me after I die I'm still "living," then oh fuck I'm screwed. |
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| del |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 1:36 am |
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大好きだよ。

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flyingcupcake wrote:
2. "It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly?"- That's a huge question- if we really are just here on accident, for no purpose at all, why do we work so hard to survive? Why do so many people suffer through each day and continue on living, even though life brings them pain? We were built with a desire to create and to love and to do something with our lives...but who or what gave us that desire?
We work hard to survive because that is what every living thing does, predators and prey adapt (natural selection) to survive, the weakest die out and the ones who are able to adapt survive and breed. I think so many people keep living even though it hurts because they have hope that something good will happen, and if waiting is the only thing they can do then they wait (even if it seems pointless) This desire I think is from our surroundings, we see the world and how we can adapt, become better and advance.
flyingcupcake wrote: I find it impossible to accept the idea that we just landed here, the result of a series of random events and chemical reactions. I can accept the idea of evolution and all that scientific stuff, but I also think there's got to be a Creator behind it all, and a greater purpose for which we all live. I think that each of us is here for a specific reason and it's up to us to figure out what that reason is.
Of course, that's just what I think.
Me personally I believe in something along the big bang for the cause of our creation. Because everything has a cause and effect (and what is the cause of a Creator?) To me even though the big bang sounds hard to believe, believing in a Creator or a god is even more hard to believe. Sometimes thinking simplier is better (having a Creator/god would make things more complicated)
Sure I can't prove or disprove in a God/Creator nor do I try to assert anything, although I do believe there is life out there. Seeing proof that we are a mere speck in the whole universe makes it hard to believe we are the only ones.
I keep living even though at the moment I have almost hit a wall because I believe things will get better, sure I can't assert anything but this little speck of hope that I have keeps me going. (heck I'm still young and I want to experience so much) I also think there is not afterlife - when I die I want to cease to exist, being tortured with an afterlife is something I don't want to think off too much.
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| flyingcupcake |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 2:00 am |
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金魚花火

Joined: 17 Nov 2006
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@ del
I see where you're coming from, but on the subject of the cause for a Creator: for centuries, we knew nothing about the systems that kept the organisms of Earth alive...it was just too big and complex for us to imagine. Isn't it also possible to imagine that maybe the Creator of Earth is too big for us to see a cause? I mean, the world is too big for us to see all at once (even from space you can only see one side), and if God made the Earth, he'd be way bigger....too big for us to even comprehend, let alone trying to figure out where he comes from.
Keeping things simple is a nice idea, but as far as I can see, life just doesn't work that way. Just look any living thing...or the Earth as a whole. Even surviving, as simple as it might sound, can be a very complex process. So I don't see how the creation of Earth could be kept "simple".
If you break a watch into individual pieces and stick it in a box, you can shake it around for as long as you want and you'll never get a whole watch again. Likewise, how could a bunch of chemicals and random matter come together to create Earth without any cause? And where did those chemicals and materials come from in the first place? And what caused the Big Bang? Even if you don't believe in a god creating the earth within days or weeks, isn't it possible that there might be a Creator who created the Universe by means of the Big Bang? |
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| del |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 2:31 am |
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大好きだよ。

Joined: 09 Jun 2006
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flyingcupcake wrote: I see where you're coming from, but on the subject of the cause for a Creator: for centuries, we knew nothing about the systems that kept the organisms of Earth alive...it was just too big and complex for us to imagine. Isn't it also possible to imagine that maybe the Creator of Earth is too big for us to see a cause? Till Charles Darwin came along and opened our eyes. I think that the Creator of Earth could be too big for us, but there has to be a cause of Creator of Earth but factoring in a Creator makes things more complex than I think they need to be. I dont see the point in relying on explanations that need heavy doses of faith, but again I can not prove either idea. However, I choose to believe in the something along the lines of a big bang for the universe's creation.
flyingcupcake wrote: Keeping things simple is a nice idea, but as far as I can see, life just doesn't work that way. Just look any living thing...or the Earth as a whole. Even surviving, as simple as it might sound, can be a very complex process. So I don't see how the creation of Earth could be kept "simple". Yes it is a very complex process millions of years of natural selection and mutations, however this can be explained by science (and a supernatural being such as God can not - hence why I do not believe in a God figure) I apologize the use of 'simple' was probably incorrect. Perhaps 'less complex' or 'not having to rely heavily on faith' for an explaination of how the Earth came to be.
flyingcupcake wrote: If you break a watch into individual pieces and stick it in a box, you can shake it around for as long as you want and you'll never get a whole watch again. This arguement is very similar the "The Tornado The Tornado in the Junkyard"
In his 1983 book The Intelligent Universe, astronomer Fred Hoyle wrote: A junkyard contains all the bits and pieces of a Boeing 747, dismembered and in disarray. A whirlwind happens to blow through the yard. What is the chance that after its passage a fully assembled 747, ready to fly, will be found standing there? So small as to be negligible, even if a tornado were to blow through enough junkyards to fill the whole Universe. This next quote explains why this arguement is flawed. (It can also be applied to your example - And if it can't then I apologize for writing/saying something stupid)
ebonmusings.org wrote: The first point is the most important. The tornado in the junkyard is an example of an intricate, complex and highly organized form being produced by nothing more than random chance. But evolution is not chance. (See this article for more on this.) Rather, it operates according to a fixed law - the law of natural selection - which favors some assemblages over others; it preferentially selects for those adaptations which improve fitness and selects against those that do not. The tornado, by contrast, slams parts together and tears them apart with no preference whatsoever, thus completely failing to represent natural selection, the central force which drives evolution. To more accurately represent evolution, one would have to grant the tornado some power to recognize assemblages of parts which could serve as part of a 747 and prevent it from tearing them apart.
Second, the tornado analogy is an example of single-step selection - in one step, it goes from a random pile of parts to a fully assembled airliner. This is completely unlike evolution, which operates according to a process of cumulative selection - complex results that are built up gradually, in a repetitive process guided at each step by selective forces. To more accurately represent evolution, the tornado could be sent through the junkyard not once, but thousands or millions of times, at each step preserving chance assemblages of parts that could make up a jumbo jet.
flyingcupcake wrote: Likewise, how could a bunch of chemicals and random matter come together to create Earth without any cause? And where did those chemicals and materials come from in the first place? And what caused the Big Bang? Even if you don't believe in a god creating the earth within days or weeks, isn't it possible that there might be a Creator who created the Universe by means of the Big Bang? The cause would be something like the Big Bang, If you keep saying a god created the Earth then you have to factor in what was the god's cause. It is possible that a Creator did create the universe by the way of something similar in the Big Bang.
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| flyingcupcake |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 3:15 am |
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金魚花火

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Yes, I see how natural selection would make real life different from the example of the tornado (or my example of the watch). But what I was aiming at (and now I realize that I wasn't very clear about my meaning...sorry ) was merely the origin of life. Natural selection doesn't really apply to a world before life, does it? Before life there would be no genetic mutations or passing generations to allow natural selection to take place. So how did life begin? Doesn't it seem like an awfully big coincidence?
And doesn't the Big Bang theory take a certain amount of faith as well, since we don't know where the original matter came from, or what "sparked" it?
To me, God is a very real entity and I have no doubt about his existence. But as science has neither proven or disproven the idea of intelligent design, I guess I don't really have anything concrete to offer in relation to this. I believe there's more to life than the Big Bang and evolution, whether science can explain it or not.
But of course, this is all just my opinion. Each to their own  |
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| Jester |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 3:26 am |
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Very powerful topic. I've had this discussion with my close group of friends on and off since we've all met and it's changed the ways we live our lives and they ways we think. Eventually, everyone has to ask themselves these same questions and get a grip of reality and figure out just what this all means to them. You've thrown a bunch of stuff at us with this single post so quoting sections and answering them justly is probably the best way to hand this.
ageofillusion wrote: You ever wonder if there really is more to this life? I have to admit, if there isn't then I'm rather dissapointed.
I used to feel the same way but I think about it differently now. I'm one of those people that believes that there simply isn't anything more to life. I think that when you're dead nothing special happens and there isn't a higher calling or anything like that at all, but why be disappointed? Instead of asking yourself why do all of these things with our timed lives ask yourself why not? I mean, why do people waste so much time worrying about death, thinking and worrying are totally different I think it's important to contemplate the power of death, when you have the amazing gift of life at your finger tips. Enjoy it!
ageofillusion wrote: Every now and then for the briefest moment I'm filled with emotions that would make me feel like there is something greater out there, but they are so quickly robbed from me I can't put any faith in them. Sometimes, actually most of the time I find myself rather convinced the atheists are right, in that you live, you die, thats the end and don't cry. People tell me otherwise, and then in there own darkness doubt it themselves. In the metiphorical night I think we all doubt it, and when despair touches us we know not what to do, so we run to what ever hope we can grab hold of, disregarding logic in the desire to stop feeling such pain.
Doesn't it seem like a giant tease sometimes? I've felt the same way before; I pretty much take things at face value and in stride now. I know some people aren't comfortable with that but it works charms for me, that's just the way my brain works. I'm actually an atheist too.
ageofillusion wrote: People talk of happiness, and I don't think they know what it is. I think it was best put by whoever said "Ask yourself if you are happy, and you cease to be so". Basiclly thats saying that only through ignorence can happiness be attained. But if happiness is what it seems to be, nothing more then chemicals, it seems rather odd that despair ever enters our heart. If there is no point, no greater purpose and reward, then why would anyone give a fuck that there isn't? If we truly are just living to die then why would we ever desire anything greater?
Some people can easily misinterpret what you said in that first sentence but I think I know what you mean. The thing is, everyone has their own definition for the word happiness; it'll almost never be the same for two people. That's just how those wacky abstract nouns work. Happiness joins that ranks of love, hate, and despair. I have a scientist's mind too so I've had this chemical debate too. Every emotion, actually everything, we feel is a result of chemicals and electrical signals; it's a fact. Happiness is basically a reward for a a positive outcome. So, why not reward yourself? Here's where people have to ask what truly makes them happy, and don't just brush that off as one of those cheesy lines (even though I know it sort of is) Give it some real though. The word "truly" should be emphasized.
ageofillusion wrote: It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly?
You would've fit right in with out little debate circles. Ah, the fixation of people with destinies. I consider destinies to be three things: a major cop out, an almighty security blanket, or the literal chance of a lifetime. Some people live there lives without care or effort because they believe there lives are predetermined and they can't fight it. Some people like the security in knowing that they're part of a big picture and they're going to do exactly what they're meant to. The last one, and the one that I'd use if I agreed with idea of destiny, is the one in which a destiny is not predetermined but written as you live your life, everchanging, and never restricted.
ageofillusion wrote: It seems almost to contridict evolution itself, as the suicide rate continues to increase due to the despair caused by our desire for more than what is.
Very good observation that most people should take note off. Not specifically the increasing suicide rates per capita, but the overall "unsyncing" of humans with nature. If we continue on this suicide long enough, we'll end up dooming all species on earth.
ageofillusion wrote: Maybe I'm just to stupid to understand, maybe I'm cursed to have to deal with the fact that my reach is much further then my grasp mentally speaking. I just wish I knew. I wish I knew that if I could just walk the hard path a little longer, I will will meet up with my destiny along the way.
You're not stupid. I think everyone who's going to live a healthy adult life will have times like these when they're just dying for answers to questions that are so out there and so important that it raps away at the brain.
Keep going, keep asking yourselves these question, and reach out like you did hear. Read what you read, and take away from that all that you can and all that you believe until you come up with something that truly satisfies you. Fulfill your own destiny and do things that make your heart happy! Good luck on your difficult, but infinitely reward, path to answer these questions. I hope I was of some help. |
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| Mansley |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 3:48 am |
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*sigh* on break from school and i thought my brain could rest...well here i go with my opinions...
ageofillusion wrote: If there is no point, no greater purpose and reward, then why would anyone give a fuck that there isn't? If we truly are just living to die then why would we ever desire anything greater? It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly? It seems almost to contridict evolution itself, as the suicide rate continues to increase due to the despair caused by our desire for more than what is. and...
flyingcupcake wrote: 2. "It seems to me to be the greatest contridiction of man, if there really is nothing more, nothing greater, no such thing as destiny, then why do we desire it so badly?"- That's a huge question- if we really are just here on accident, for no purpose at all, why do we work so hard to survive? Why do so many people suffer through each day and continue on living, even though life brings them pain? We were built with a desire to create and to love and to do something with our lives...but who or what gave us that desire? but all these desires and hopes and pains and everything...it is all man-made. i think this is the main problem with all of it. humans are animals, which have become intelligent enough to make inventions and tools and all sorts of junk. mainly, humans have created the ideas of society, religion, and things like greater good. and humans are greedy. their thoughts always hoping to improve their lives and feel better about themselves, would therefore always be searching for some greater cause as to why they exist. thinkers i will say. always thinking brings about discontent, being ignorant is the best way to be content. there is no greater cause, humans are falsely chasing something we invented that doesn't exist. because when you boil everything down to its roots, we are animals, nothing more and nothing less. animals do not seek any sort of higher goal in life than just to exist. so think of yourself as what you are, an animal. while you are still part of society you are still part of nature to. abide by the laws of society and the laws of nature too. when your time is up that is all there is to it. time spent now searching for some greater purpose is time spent wasted.
as such i most agree with tatsuka ito so far. there is no reason for me to wish for anything man-made. i am after all, part of nature, even if i am shielded from it by civilization and man-made ideals.
flyingcupcake wrote: 1."if happiness is what it seems to be, nothing more then chemicals, it seems rather odd that despair ever enters our heart."- that's a question I've often asked. If we're nothing but sacks of chemicals and flesh, then how can our feelings be so strong? If life is essentially an "accident", then why do we love so deeply or feel such pain? It just doesn't make sense to me. before i continue i must say i am atheist so i automatically will reject such things as a "creator". now i think, no matter how strong our own feelings are there is nothing more to it than a chemical reaction. happiness, and despair as well, are both just chemical reactions triggered by our brain when we perceive whatever is causing us to feel that way. our own ego will not like this sad truth, as we are basically reducing ourselves to a mere sac of chemicals when instead we think of ourselves as the greatest race ever. but if chemistry can create us, such as the big bang, then why is it so hard for us to believe that it can make us feel strong emotions? also i wish to say, at this time i will not get into the discussion of the big bang as it seems a tad off-topic.
well those are my thoughts for now. i encourage you to seek whatever answer makes you most feel at peace. this is simply what puts my mind at ease should my thoughts ever wander into such a subject. (and it often does) |
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| Jester |
Posted: Dec 22, 2006 3:52 am |
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Mansley wrote: humans are animals
That is so freaky! My friends and I were just talking about how that's probably one of the most important facts when it comes to considering this type of thing. Furthermore, being called an animals has evolved into something degrading when it shouldn't be; it's fact. I mean, come on, we've got the phylum genus to prove it.  |
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