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Do You Pity the Children of Today?

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What/Who do you deem responsible for the lack of innocence in children today?

Society (Traditions, Expectations, Peer Pressure)  
8%
 
Media (eg. T.V. Shows, Movies, Music, Magazines)  
17%
 
Poor Role Models (Celebrities, Sports Stars, Older Siblings etc)  
8%
 
Fashions (Too grown Up, unsuitable)  
0%
 
Changes in Society (Swearing/ Violence more tolerated in society)  
4%
 
All of the above  
60%
 
Unsure  
0%
 

Total Votes : 23
LightDay
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 7:21 am Reply with quote
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@davedim

I don't know if u are in bad mood or something, but i don't think cherry_ripe21's opinions deserve such relatively strong replies from u. There is nothing absolute in this world, one thing can be good or bad very much depending on ur point of view. So is there the necessity to put it harsh? I believe without doing that everyone can understand what u are saying.

@Cherry_Ripe21

I have exactly the same thought as u actually. All those silly childish cartoons, simplicity and everything. How so nice. And how lovely would it be if the kids these days are still cute and listen to what the elders tell them. But then again, the society is moving every day, so fast has our world moved forward that none of those past simplicities survived. 10 years ago i thought Walkman is the coolest thing in the world, and now it's totally replaced by ipods. And along with this fact, i guess it's inevitable for what is happening to the kids nowadays.

There are so much pressure in this competitive world that if u don't do as much as u can, u will not be able to survive. The temperature is getting hot, but the world is getting cold. Cruel world as we know it, is too realistic. So there's much to feel pity about, instead of the children, it's actually mankind and the environment. Poverty, as dave pointed out, is also one of them. And do we actually have a solution for it?

The kids are the only hope to cure this world. And the responsibility rests on education if u ask me. Rather than trying to find who's to blame, it's the solution we need. The options that u provided are actually interrelated. And they can be solved IF the kids are given proper education, either home or school. So what if they watch programs like South Park if the parents can properly explain to them what's the moral behind it, what's good what's not. I think they will learn better things instead of negatives. Yet it is so often neglected. Parents are too busy and teachers do not have enough strength to handle the students.

If u ask me whether i pity the children of today, my answer is yes, very much. I pity the lack of proper education they are given, lack of attention they received and so much pressure they have to face. 10 years ago, there's no fear on terrorism, global warming, nuclear weapon threat, new fatal diseases (bird flu, SARS). 10 years later, there could be more than that. And kids born today will have to face all those problems. If we really pity the kids, we shld realise that we shld act more responsibly.
 
Rinoa
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 7:37 am Reply with quote
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Comparing someone to a "crackpot" is seriously offending and out of context in an intelligent discussion. To be honest your aggressive replies are simply too rude and obnoxious.

Also when a person starts a discussion, reasonable people do not become aggressive because this person doesn't agree with their ideas. Others do actually have an opinion which might be different but it doesn't make them stupid or wrong.

davedim wrote:
I don't think that you should be using Mean Girls as a reference for society in general.

To a certain extent it can. If you really examine creative arts well you will be able to see that they are a reflection of current society. Mean Girls portrays suburban middle/high class kids and their stereotypical shallow behaviour. Yes it is a pretty generic and the movie is not a very clear representation. However it does show how teens judge each other by the clothes they wear or how much parties they throw. It shows how many teens are now becoming mindless sheep who only care about popularity and superficial looks.

davedim wrote:
Just because a lot of people believe something doesn't make it true.

That's true but unless you're blind or live under a rock, one will observe how society isn't really displaying a good example for kids (especially role models) and kids do imitate role models.

davedim wrote:
I'm sure some kids in Uganda would totally agree.

They're starving because of a Lindsay Lohan movie.

Sure, that must be it.

Wow your sarcasm is really intelligent. You are taking this argument to a completely different context. This person is obviously discussing the developed world. The developing world has other issues to deal with so if you want to discuss them do it in a logical manner and don't be rude.

davedim wrote:
Oh yeah, because that totally happens.

What world are you living in exactly?

You just threw away what little credibility you had to begin with.

You need to take a look at the world around you before passing judgment on it.

Honestly quit being an annoyance. You have seriously ticked me off by your "smartass attitude". Yes kids in many industrialised countries are becoming too corrupted by society. I've taught kids at a point and in my life and I was horrified to see how some have lost all their innocence and care more about shallow aspects, such as looks.

I don't know, but I think you are throwing away your credibility with your agressive and unreasonable behaviour. If you want to create an intelligent discussion reply in a polite manner and don't sound like a raving lunatic.
 
davedim
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 11:28 am Reply with quote
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Rinoa wrote:
Comparing someone to a "crackpot" is seriously offending and out of context in an intelligent discussion. To be honest your aggressive replies are simply too rude and obnoxious.

I suggest that you go back and read my post.

I actually said that suggesting that "3 year olds are wearing mini skirts and knee high boots, 5 year olds are carrying guns in their lunch box and 3 year olds are smoking dope" makes her look like a right-wing crackpot.

You'll see that I didn't personally attack her at all.

I only criticized what she was saying.

I'll admit that my post was idiotic.

But I had little choice when replying to such garbage.

Rinoa wrote:
To a certain extent it can. If you really examine creative arts well you will be able to see that they are a reflection of current society. Mean Girls portrays suburban middle/high class kids and their stereotypical shallow behaviour. Yes it is a pretty generic and the movie is not a very clear representation. However it does show how teens judge each other by the clothes they wear or how much parties they throw. It shows how many teens are now becoming mindless sheep who only care about popularity and superficial looks.

I would argue that using a Lindsay Lohan movie as a reference to the world in general is quite mindless in itself.

I would prefer if she had used a real-life example as opposed to "this thing that happened in a movie."

Rinoa wrote:
That's true but unless you're blind or live under a rock, one will observe how society isn't really displaying a good example for kids (especially role models) and kids do imitate role models.

I really don't understand all this stuff about how society is going down the drain these days.

People should remember that just a century or two ago, child labour was still widespread in the so-called developed world (since that's what we're talking about, right?).

Children are happier today more than ever and they have more freedom to make something of their lives.

I don't know where a girl who's 2 years older than me gets off telling everyone how great it was in "the good old days."

Rinoa wrote:
Wow your sarcasm is really intelligent. You are taking this argument to a completely different context. This person is obviously discussing the developed world. The developing world has other issues to deal with so if you want to discuss them do it in a logical manner and don't be rude.

I think that children in the developing world are just as relevant to this discussion.

I'll admit that I was just being an asshole with that comment though.

But it's no worse than claiming that 3 year-olds are carrying guns.

Rinoa wrote:
Honestly quit being an annoyance. You have seriously ticked me off by your "smartass attitude". Yes kids in many industrialised countries are becoming too corrupted by society. I've taught kids at a point and in my life and I was horrified to see how some have lost all their innocence and care more about shallow aspects, such as looks.

Just because you disagree with what I said doesn't mean that you have to personally attack me. There is a difference between calling my replies idiotic and actually calling me an annoying smartass.

I've volunteered with kids and I have two younger sisters, one of which I helped raise. So I also know what I'm talking about here in case you're trying to claim experiential superiority over me.

I'll admit that maybe kids are obsessed with looks and superficial things, but at least they're not down the mines.

Also, most of them will grow out of it eventually.

Rinoa wrote:
I don't know, but I think you are throwing away your credibility with your agressive and unreasonable behaviour. If you want to create an intelligent discussion reply in a polite manner and don't sound like a raving lunatic.

...says the person who just called me an annoying smartass.

If either you or Cherry_Ripe21 want to provide facts and figures about toddler drug abuse and gun crime then by all means go ahead.

Seriously, I am willing to drop this now if you are too and we can continue this discussion in a civil way.

I just want you to know that I was criticizing Cherry_Ripe21's crackpot theories about how "things were so great 10 years ago" and how these days "5 year olds are smoking weed and carrying guns."

I was not personally attacking her, so please don't personally attack me.
 
Rinoa
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 1:10 pm Reply with quote
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davedim wrote:
I suggest that you go back and read my post.
You'll see that I didn't personally attack her at all.
I only criticized what she was saying.
I'll admit that my post was idiotic.
But I had little choice when replying to such garbage.

I read your post pretty well. Excuse me but that doesn't justify comparing someone to a crackpot. All your posts seem an attack to whatever she says. Also her opinions are not garbage so respect them.

davedim wrote:
I would argue that using a Lindsay Lohan movie as a reference to the world in general is quite mindless in itself.
I would prefer if she had used a real-life example as opposed to "this thing that happened in a movie."

Your point? Lindsay didn't make the movie but the directors/scriptwriters did. The movie also displays many events which happen in reality which I've seen myself. So it is a reality reflected and provided on a medium: a movie.

davedim wrote:
I really don't understand all this stuff about how society is going down the drain these days.
People should remember that just a century or two ago, child labour was still widespread in the so-called developed world (since that's what we're talking about, right?).
Children are happier today more than ever and they have more freedom to make something of their lives.
I don't know where a girl who's 2 years older than me gets off telling everyone how great it was in "the good old days."

You don't? Let me give you an example. Well I remember when I was a kid how being a drug addict was something looked down onto. Now it seems that being a drug addict is something "hip". Same goes for anorexia, cheating and multiple relationships at the same time. Children are more free (which is a really good thing) but still some children are taking choices which are destroying their lives thanks to the role models provided by the current society.

Also a century ago the present developed world was actually developing so please keep that in mind before comparing and considering child labour. 50 years ago my country was a developing one but now in the present we have become more financially independent.

I assure you it wasn't perfect back then but it certainly was better for some kids back then in suburban areas in the developed world. And honestly I don't get why you think I'm "telling everyone off" or being bossy just because "I'm two years older". I'm just stating the facts as I see them so quit trying to be the victim here.

davedim wrote:
I think that children in the developing world are just as relevant to this discussion.
I'll admit that I was just being an asshole with that comment though.
But it's no worse than claiming that 3 year-olds are carrying guns.

Of course they are revelant. I have read about how much these kids suffer and I feel for them. But if you have to point it out show with intelligent arguments. Tell the people about how children are exploited and sold as commodities as "pleasure objects" and point out how they never live their childhood because as soon as a girl hits 13 she gets married off to get rid of the "financial weight". But clarify this, rather than being sarcastic about starving kids in Uganda, because not everyone understands what you're talking about.

davedim wrote:
Just because you disagree with what I said doesn't mean that you have to personally attack me. There is a difference between calling my replies idiotic and actually calling me an annoying smartass.
I've volunteered with kids and I have two younger sisters, one of which I helped raise. So I also know what I'm talking about here in case you're trying to claim experiential superiority over me.
I'll admit that maybe kids are obsessed with looks and superficial things, but at least they're not down the mines.
Also, most of them will grow out of it eventually.

I am not personally attacking you. I'm simply pointing out how biased your words are. You are implying your opinions are superior to the thread poster and you're being sarcastic to her posts. Trust me, it's not fun to read it. Maybe you should consider posting in a more coherent and reasonable manner rather than calling someone's opinion "garbage".

Also I am not referring to my experience to show my superiority. I am doing so to show you from my experience that some kids are getting corrupted by society. It's not nice seeing kids bully a kid because she/he is considered "fat" or "ugly" and I've seen it in many cases muself. They might grow out of it but the kid who gets bullied might end up with an inferiority complex because of this.

davedim wrote:
...says the person who just called me an annoying smartass.
If either you or Cherry_Ripe21 want to provide facts and figures about toddler drug abuse and gun crime then by all means go ahead.
Seriously, I am willing to drop this now if you are too and we can continue this discussion in a civil way.
I just want you to know that I was criticizing Cherry_Ripe21's crackpot theories about how "things were so great 10 years ago" and how these days "5 year olds are smoking weed and carrying guns."
I was not personally attacking her, so please don't personally attack me.

Wow victimisation again. I'm just pointing out how rude you were so don't think I have something personal against you. I don't know you and don't have anything against you but your attitude seriously bugged me because you were rude.

I am discussing in a civil manner but you are calling people's opinion "garbage" or "crackpot theory". That is not civil at all. You are drawing this picture that I'm taking out some personal attack on you but to be frank, I rarely get personal unless I've known this person on a personal basis rather than a forum. I don't know you at all so I cannot judge you. I never claimed I was two years older than you or anything of that sort to show my "telling off". I called you annoying because your attitude was seriously annoying/rude and your sarcastic replies suggested a smartass attitude. No one in this thread was as rude as you were even if they didn't completely agree and now that I'm showing you how rude you are, you decide to turn the tables and be the victim to make me look like "the bad guy".

If you want to discuss something don't be rude and respect everybody's opinion because everyone has different experiences and come from different environments. You have to respect that or else you'll sound insulting.

I'm sure that if you read the news you will see many issues relating kid problems. A while ago a young girl died because she wanted to be a model and she became anorexic. Also I'm sure you read of various school shootings/drug trafficing in schools that happen frequently. Our college was frequently raided because teens there trafficed drugs.

However the picture is not so bleak. Luckily though we still have some good role models like Chuck Norris who has provided a fantastic series which has inspired many people to start over and be more satisfied in their lives.
 
davedim
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 2:09 pm Reply with quote
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Rinoa wrote:
I read your post pretty well. Excuse me but that doesn't justify comparing someone to a crackpot. All your posts seem an attack to whatever she says. Also her opinions are not garbage so respect them.

I was actually referring to this:

Cherry_Ripe21 wrote:
But fair enough, as everything evolves, so do the children of this generation, so maybe i should just simply shut my mouth and watch 3 year olds wearing mini skirts and knee high boots, 5 year olds carrying guns/weapons in their lunch box and 3 year olds smoking dope with their "responsible" older "wiser" family members.

Now I'm sorry, but that is not an opinion.

I honestly don't know what else I can say about that.

Rinoa wrote:
Your point? Lindsay didn't make the movie but the directors/scriptwriters did. The movie also displays many events which happen in reality which I've seen myself. So it is a reality reflected and provided on a medium: a movie.

My point was that she should give facts rather than refer to a scene from a movie to prove her point.

davedim wrote:
You don't? Let me give you an example. Well I remember when I was a kid how being a drug addict was something looked down onto. Now it seems that being a drug addict is something "hip". Same goes for anorexia, cheating and multiple relationships at the same time. Children are more free (which is a really good thing) but still some children are taking choices which are destroying their lives thanks to the role models provided by the current society.

Also a century ago the present developed world was actually developing so please keep that in mind before comparing and considering child labour. 50 years ago my country was a developing one but now in the present we have become more financially independent.

I assure you it wasn't perfect back then but it certainly was better for some kids back then in suburban areas in the developed world. And honestly I don't get why you think I'm "telling everyone off" or being bossy just because "I'm two years older". I'm just stating the facts as I see them so quit trying to be the victim here.

I'm honestly not trying to be the victim at all.

There is no victim as far as I can see.

Just two differing opinions.

And I was referring to the OP as the girl who is two years older than me.

Also, anorexia and drug addiction are not seen as "hip" in this country at all.

It happens a lot but it isn't exactly looked kindly upon.

Rinoa wrote:
Of course they are revelant. I have read about how much these kids suffer and I feel for them. But if you have to point it out show with intelligent arguments. Tell the people about how children are exploited and sold as commodities as "pleasure objects" and point out how they never live their childhood because as soon as a girl hits 13 she gets married off to get rid of the "financial weight". But clarify this, rather than being sarcastic about starving kids in Uganda, because not everyone understands what you're talking about.

I totally agree with you in this case and maybe I should have clarified exactly what I meant.

I think the way that children in the developing world are ignored while we deal with our comparatively tiny problems is just sickening.

Rinoa wrote:
I am not personally attacking you. I'm simply pointing out how biased your words are. You are implying your opinions are superior to the thread poster and you're being sarcastic to her posts. Trust me, it's not fun to read it. Maybe you should consider posting in a more coherent and reasonable manner rather than calling someone's opinion "garbage".

Also I am not referring to my experience to show my superiority. I am doing so to show you from my experience that some kids are getting corrupted by society. It's not nice seeing kids bully a kid because she/he is considered "fat" or "ugly" and I've seen it in many cases muself. They might grow out of it but the kid who gets bullied might end up with an inferiority complex because of this.

I was just pointing out that in the same post as you told me to stop being rude, you accused me of being both annoying and a smartass.

I'm not saying I'm a victim or anything, I was just pointing that out.

Rinoa wrote:
I am discussing in a civil manner but you are calling people's opinion "garbage" or "crackpot theory". That is not civil at all. You are drawing this picture that I'm taking out some personal attack on you but to be frank, I rarely get personal unless I've known this person on a personal basis rather than a forum. I don't know you at all so I cannot judge you. I never claimed I was two years older than you or anything of that sort to show my "telling off". I called you annoying because your attitude was seriously annoying/rude and your sarcastic replies suggested a smartass attitude. No one in this thread was as rude as you were even if they didn't completely agree and now that I'm showing you how rude you are, you decide to turn the tables and be the victim to make me look like "the bad guy".

I'm not trying to make you look like the bad guy.

Anyone reading this thread can clearly see that I was the one being confrontational.

I just thought it was sort of strange of you to tell me to be more civil and then call me a smartass.

But I do see your point.


Rinoa wrote:
If you want to discuss something don't be rude and respect everybody's opinion because everyone has different experiences and come from different environments. You have to respect that or else you'll sound insulting.

I'm just too used to getting angry and dogmatic when I voice my opinions.

I should probably mention that I was in the Scottish Socialist Youth for a few years and so I blame my argumentative ways on that.

Socialism is quite the "crackpot theory" too now that I think about it. Giggle

Rinoa wrote:
I'm sure that if you read the news you will see many issues relating kid problems. A while ago a young girl died because she wanted to be a model and she became anorexic. Also I'm sure you read of various school shootings/drug trafficing in schools that happen frequently. Our college was frequently raided because teens there trafficed drugs.

Yeah, I live just outside Glasgow, which has more heroin addicts than the rest of the country.

It's also the poorest city in Scotland.

I still think that the major problem for children the world over is still poverty and we should deal with that first before worrying about what they wear or people swearing on TV.

Rinoa wrote:
However the picture is not so bleak. Luckily though we still have some good role models like Chuck Norris who has provided a fantastic series which has inspired many people to start over and be more satisfied in their lives.

YES

Chuck Norris is like unto a GOD

Chuck Norris was once on Celebrity Wheel of Fortune and was the first to spin.

The next 29 minutes of the show consisted of everyone standing around awkwardly, waiting for the wheel to stop.
 
Rinoa
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 2:40 pm Reply with quote
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davedim wrote:
Now I'm sorry, but that is not an opinion.
I honestly don't know what else I can say about that.

Yes it is. According to the dictionary an opinion is a personal view or belief. And Cherry_Ripe21 is providing her personal view of how she sees young kids in the present.

davedim wrote:
My point was that she should give facts rather than refer to a scene from a movie to prove her point.

Fair enough.

davedim wrote:
I'm honestly not trying to be the victim at all.
There is no victim as far as I can see.
Just two differing opinions.
And I was referring to the OP as the girl who is two years older than me.
Also, anorexia and drug addiction are not seen as "hip" in this country at all.
It happens a lot but it isn't exactly looked kindly upon.

Really? That's good since you gave that impression. Of course everyone has different opinion. I assumed you were referring to me. Anyhow in my country drug addiction is considered "cool" and same goes for being violent (yes we have young kids run around with firearms thanks to ignorant hunters). Also pressure for being stick-thin is increasing. If a teenage girl weighs over 50kgs she's considered "fat" and whoever is skinny to the point of being unhealthy is glorified.

davedim wrote:
I totally agree with you in this case and maybe I should have clarified exactly what I meant.
I think the way that children in the developing world are ignored while we deal with our comparatively tiny problems is just sickening.

Yes that is so true. Personally I am disgusted at how many developed companies exploit these countries and how kids are treated cheaply like commodities. I've studied a study unit at school about developing countries and I was horrified. However we still have our problems too so they must be considered.

davedim wrote:
I was just pointing out that in the same post as you told me to stop being rude, you accused me of being both annoying and a smartass.

I'm not saying I'm a victim or anything, I was just pointing that out.

Sorry, but it's not like I could've said you were being nice since your responses were sarcastic and rude. If you replied minus the sarcasm & rudeness I wouldn't have told you you were being annoying.

davedim wrote:
I'm not trying to make you look like the bad guy.
Anyone reading this thread can clearly see that I was the one being confrontational.
I just thought it was sort of strange of you to tell me to be more civil and then call me a smartass.
But I do see your point.

Naturally but you seemed you gave the impression that you were throwing the blame on me when you started it all with your attitude. I called you a smartass because you were acting like a know-it-all and your rude attitude was annoying. If you disagree with something you can clearly explain it in an intelligent manner (since you seem a pretty smart guy who can think on his own) without calling someone's opinions/words "garbage".

davedim wrote:
I'm just too used to getting angry and dogmatic when I voice my opinions.
I should probably mention that I was in the Scottish Socialist Youth for a few years and so I blame my argumentative ways on that.

I guess but it offends people Tongue

davedim wrote:
Yeah, I live just outside Glasgow, which has more heroin addicts than the rest of the country.
It's also the poorest city in Scotland.
I still think that the major problem for children the world over is still poverty and we should deal with that first before worrying about what they wear or people swearing on TV.

That really sucks. Poverty is certainly one of the biggest problems but the kids of today are the adults of tomorrow and they must learn to become responsible adults to make a better world. I could care less about swearing but personally I wish my kids would respect themselves and wear decent clothes, rather than try to be like Paris Hilton or something. Being sexy is fine and fun but only when you're grown up enough to take care of yourself.

davedim wrote:
YES
Chuck Norris is like unto a GOD
Chuck Norris was once on Celebrity Wheel of Fortune and was the first to spin.
The next 29 minutes of the show consisted of everyone standing around awkwardly, waiting for the wheel to stop.

Er... I don't get this but it sounds something sarcastic again. Hope not. Anyhow I only mentioned him because he's a fairly good example for young people which is something rare for modern day stars.
 
davedim
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Rinoa wrote:
Yes it is. According to the dictionary an opinion is a personal view or belief. And Cherry_Ripe21 is providing her personal view of how she sees young kids in the present.


You have to admit that 3 year olds smoking dope is not based in reality at all though.

Rinoa wrote:
If a teenage girl weighs over 50kgs she's considered "fat" and whoever is skinny to the point of being unhealthy is glorified.


That is quite bad and I agree that something has to be done about it.

But at least children in developed countries have enough food these days.

My point from the beginning was that things are actually better now than they have ever been and society isn't going down the drain like the OP implied.

Rinoa wrote:
Yes that is so true. Personally I am disgusted at how many developed companies exploit these countries and how kids are treated cheaply like commodities. I've studied a study unit at school about developing countries and I was horrified. However we still have our problems too so they must be considered.


It is true that we do have our own problems but I like to think of things on a global scale.

I think that we should pay more attention to the plight of children in poorer countries as well as our own.

Rinoa wrote:
Sorry, but it's not like I could've said you were being nice since your responses were sarcastic and rude. If you replied minus the sarcasm & rudeness I wouldn't have told you you were being annoying.


I can be an asshole sometimes and I apologise.

But my point still stands.

5 year olds don't carry guns, 3 year olds don't smoke dope and there was swearing on TV when I was a kid.

I just don't like it when I see people who are obviously far-right conservatives making unfounded claims that society is worse than ever these days.

Rinoa wrote:
I called you a smartass because you were acting like a know-it-all and your rude attitude was annoying.

I was actually quite offended by the OP at first because she gave no facts and then claimed that things are getting worse for children.

That kind of made me go into debate mode where anything goes... which I shouldn't have done.

Rinoa wrote:
I guess but it offends people Tongue


Yeah, I suppose.

Just keep me away from politics and I'm a nice guy, honestly. Giggle

Rinoa wrote:
Poverty is certainly one of the biggest problems but the kids of today are the adults of tomorrow and they must learn to become responsible adults to make a better world. I could care less about swearing but personally I wish my kids would respect themselves and wear decent clothes, rather than try to be like Paris Hilton or something. Being sexy is fine and fun but only when you're grown up enough to take care of yourself.


I agree with you but I think that there should be more emphasis on developing countries.

Eating disorders in rich countries are a problem.

Although I'll be saving my sympathies for poverty-stricken orphans sold into slavery rather than rich kids who want to look like Paris Hilton.

Rinoa wrote:
Davedim wrote:
YES
Chuck Norris is like unto a GOD
Chuck Norris was once on Celebrity Wheel of Fortune and was the first to spin.
The next 29 minutes of the show consisted of everyone standing around awkwardly, waiting for the wheel to stop.


Er... I don't get this but it sounds something sarcastic again. Hope not. Anyhow I only mentioned him because he's a fairly good example for young people which is something rare for modern day stars.


Oh, it's a Chuck Norris fact.

Everyone knows them. Smile

http://www.thechucknorrisfacts.com/
 
AnimeDad
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 4:50 pm Reply with quote
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Hmm, contentious topic, ne?

Fact: As stated above, my wife is a (kindergarten) school teacher, and has told me many stories about appalling behavior and attitudes in 5 and 6 - year old children, things that just didn't happen 20 years ago when she started teaching. And she began her career teaching in one of the roughest areas of Sydney, where nobody wanted to teach. Case in point: She has a kid in her class this year, who, when she first met him at age 4, said hello to him. The kid's reply? "F*** off"
And that, unfortunately, is nothing new or different. Last week, a 6-year-old in the same school was suspended for physically attcking his teacher.

Fact: A few years ago, there was an article in the newspaper about a young mother who allowed her child to drink, smoke, have a tattoo and an earring. A bit extreme? Yes, especially when the child is 6 years old (well, not the earring).


Fact: My next-door neighbor is a real pot-head, he smokes dope before, during and after work, and all evening. His 13-year old daughter is on the verge of getting expelled from school because of her continual bad attitude.

Just a couple of (real life) examples of some children nowadays. And these children didn't just "become" that way themselves. It's the attitudes and behavior of the parents and society in general that influence these kids. And "role models" like Paris and Lindsay don't help.

Like has been said here before: There's as many different opinions as different people. You guys have to respect each other's opinions, even if you don't like or agree with them, and not personally attck each other. It's not adding anything to the discussion at all.
 
Rinoa
Posted: Mar 22, 2007 4:58 pm Reply with quote
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davedim wrote:
You have to admit that 3 year olds smoking dope is not based in reality at all though.

No, I've gotta admit I've never seen 3 year olds smoking dope, usually teens are more into drugs.

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That is quite bad and I agree that something has to be done about it.
But at least children in developed countries have enough food these days.

My point from the beginning was that things are actually better now than they have ever been and society isn't going down the drain like the OP implied.


I think you're right. In a way we've improved but also we've regressed. I mean we're more well developed, more comfortable and have more choices. However we are still ignoring a lot of huge problems associated with children in developing countries and other gigantic problems (environmental ones). Also the modern role models are not that exemplary and kids are taking up after them.

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It is true that we do have our own problems but I like to think of things on a global scale.
I think that we should pay more attention to the plight of children in poorer countries as well as our own.


Yeah I've gotta admit you're right there too. I really wish the promotion of adopting kids from these poor countries was promoted much more.

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I can be an asshole sometimes and I apologise.
But my point still stands.
5 year olds don't carry guns, 3 year olds don't smoke dope and there was swearing on TV when I was a kid.
I just don't like it when I see people who are obviously far-right conservatives making unfounded claims that society is worse than ever these days.


It's okay, I tend to get ticked off when people are rude so I apologise too. Now that you're speaking in a clearer manner I can understand more. There was swearing on TV when I was a kid too but it escalated due many factors. I can mention rappers from the top of my head. 5 year olds do not usually carry guns but there are various cases of teens who have ended up in school shooting because of psychological problems.

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I was actually quite offended by the OP at first because she gave no facts and then claimed that things are getting worse for children.


Alright then. Point cleared.

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Just keep me away from politics and I'm a nice guy, honestly. Giggle


Allrighty Wink I like discussing politics but I don't really take them at heart. I'm more worried about animal cruelty and environmental problems.

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I agree with you but I think that there should be more emphasis on developing countries.
Eating disorders in rich countries are a problem.
Although I'll be saving my sympathies for poverty-stricken orphans sold into slavery rather than rich kids who want to look like Paris Hilton.

Lol alright. Yes I agree developing countries should receive more help but it's pretty complicated, especially if the nation is a dictatorship and many developed companies are enjoying cheap labour.


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Oh, it's a Chuck Norris fact.
Everyone knows them. Smile
http://www.thechucknorrisfacts.com/


Oh those Laughing I remember I laughed so much when reading them.
 
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Finally there's some light through all the grey clouds! Giggle
 
cnix
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i personally don't think some of the items listed in the poll should account for the loss of innocence in modern day children. Honestly, what does a person really have going for them if they let such superficial things infect their 'innocence' and shape the way they think or act. Of course im just generalizing here. the inability of kids to cope with their surroundings and peer influences is the real problem. kids who suffer from extreme poverty are exempt from my generalization though.
 
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Posted: Mar 30, 2007 5:02 am Reply with quote
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The children today, well all of the above pretty much sums up what's been happening. In my school, there's too many bad influence such as; wrong uniform for good looks, inappropriate language and physical and verbal abuse. It happens alot in my school, it's troublesome alright. Laughing
 
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They are losing that percieved 'innocence', in fact we are forcing them to grow up to quick in this world so they can takeover the problems, however the problem will not be solved by the way we teach kids which is by a generalisation of the people of the worlds problems like (poverty, enviromental protection and war), as kids are just not prepared to solve these answers early on and continuously change their hypothesis on all theories of life.

Therefore we need to teach primary/elementary children not only the formats we set out the answer in (i.e. teaching them how to do essays, report & basic maths problem solving skills.) but teach them an understanding of their own personal decision-making skills, emotions & their morals and get that into their heads and keep reminding them. Then in high school give them these global issues for them to form their own opinion and you'll see remarkably better students, also it would certainly help cut down issues with violence, alchool & drug abuse as well as STDs, really due to a better understanding of themselves not going by the general populace. This would provide the world a greater chance of solving these problems such as global warming and poverty.

Basically we need to take a step back, but still maintain aid to the populations affected by these problems until we are prepared to put an end to it.
 
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omg! BRILLIANT topic & poll. It's so nice to see someone talking about important things instead of dumb stuff like "who's hotter?" and stuff. I chose "all of the above"...today's society is so sad...girls looking up to fake people who use all that makeup to hide their true features and convince girls that's what is beautiful. Over-the-top sexual artists like Jessica Simpson and Koda Kumi encouraging girls to take their clothes off and that's what is sexy. It's so pitiful. I believe we women are all beautiful & we don't have to belittle ourselves to fit in. Screw society; I'm gonna be myself...and I'm beautiful just that way!
 
Rinoa
Posted: Apr 22, 2007 10:15 am Reply with quote
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AiAmBEST! =P wrote:
...today's society is so sad...girls looking up to fake people who use all that makeup to hide their true features and convince girls that's what is beautiful. Over-the-top sexual artists like Jessica Simpson and Koda Kumi encouraging girls to take their clothes off and that's what is sexy. It's so pitiful. I believe we women are all beautiful & we don't have to belittle ourselves to fit in. Screw society; I'm gonna be myself...and I'm beautiful just that way!

Hmmm.. being sexy is not completely wrong. (In my opinion) It's a way to express your confidence and show your personality. I have no problem with Kumi being sexy because it's not done in a degrading manner and doesn't really promote immoral values. She's got the body and she shows it off. Why not? Nonetheless, the thing that disturbs me is how they air tiny little girls imitating Kumi's dance moves. If I was a mom I wouldn't let my 8 year old kid watch Kumi, let alone dance to her moves. But I suppose that's more onto parenting since the moms should know better.

What is certainly wrong is how the stars (especially the American ones) live this utterly superficial-plastic life. Most of the stars mentioned usually are glorified, yet they are constantly on botox, plastic surgery and starvation diets. If these stars are truly so confident and awesome why do they have to ravage their bodies? (I'm not speaking about some minor tweak here and there, I'm speaking about those who go to extremes.) Also they claim how happy they are but yet relationships are usually based on something extremely shallow like looks, money or fame. Many stars have multiple divorces (I'm not talking about two or three, I'm talking about five or even more!) under their belt and twice as much in the cheating department.

Finally most of these stars are a terrible impact to the environment. All these jets and a load of energy wasting fanfares are helping to enhance global warming. And most of them are filthy rich but are too stingy to donate anything. But, who cares? As long as they show off how rich they are...

Also another attitude which seriously bugs me is the "dumb-bimbo-barbie" image. They give the blondes (and the whole of the female gender) a terrible and pathetic image. I'm speaking about Paris Hilton, Britney Spears and also Jessica Simpson. Most of these are usually spoilt little princesses who depend on daddy and never grow up. They show how a girl can be a parasite and live off some old geezer by being the "stupid little wife". Their pathetic attempt at being in the spotlight is damaging to so many impressionable teens. These girls actually degrade themselves and are not sexy - they're thrashy. No guy would date a girl like her and take her seriously because he wouldn't waste his time over someone so plastic, except to have his time of his life.

Seeing Britney or Paris partying, high/drunk (doing dumb things that I won't mention) makes my stomach churn. Seeing Britney marry that loser K-Fed and let him suck her dry was also something that puts all female to shame. As p!nk would clearly mention in her song Stupid Girls: "Where, oh where, have the smart people gone?" Good question..

Being sexy is not something bad, per se. It's how to present it and how you act. You can be sexy but that doesn't mean you are easy or thrasy. Ayumi Hamasaki is sexy in various instances and yet she's a fantastic role model. Angelina Jolie is extremely sexy and yet she has done countless positive actions which make her a pretty decent role model. (UNICEF, adopting kids) Madonna too is sexy, but wow she's achieved a lot and done a lot of positive things like adopting kids too.

In the end though, if a person can be her/himself, it's even better. If you find yourself confident enough to desire to create your own persona rather than being a sheep then congratulations.
 
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