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| KerushiiAi |
 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 11:58 pm |
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MishMish wrote:
Uhm...also when people actually say 'LOL' in real life... that's stupid. >_< Or when they say "OMG" in real life. I laugh at them and say, "Gosh, I really hate you, you know that?" It's especially fun if they're younger.  It's mostly them who do it though. 'Cause they want to be "cool". It's kinda...hilarious in a pathetic sort of way. They're all like, talking about....let's just say "inappropriate" things...and thinking it makes them cool. But it's actually immature, annoying, and gross. And all the high schoolers laugh at them~ 
Oops, I was rambling. 
octocoffee wrote: I hate it when girls say "OMG, I'm sooo fat. Look at all this flubber!" when really they know that they aren't fat and just want to get some compliments. Or if they say that they're ugly. Gosh, that is so annoying.  I totally agree. |
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| tsumetai.ame |
| Posted: Jul 02, 2007 4:53 pm |
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Oh yeahhh!! I hate it when people say "I'm Ugly!"
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Of them with the camera way above their head so it mostly shows their lame foreheads but makes their eyes look big and their chins look small (even though no one in real life looks like how they do in that picture or else it's just freak of nature to have foreheads like that with huge buggy eyes and then tiny weenie mouth LOLOL) and then everyone else is like "U R soooooooo pretty!!1" Actually I hate the people who actually think that it's beautiful to use a fake pose (plus who has much to say about foreheads? haha) more because they're so stupid for not recognizing it. |
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| MishMish ^_^ |
| Posted: Jul 03, 2007 9:02 am |
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甘えんぼ
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KerushiiAi wrote: Or when they say "OMG" in real life. I laugh at them and say, "Gosh, I really hate you, you know that?"
*Hysterical laughter*
WAAAAAH! That single line had me in stitches!
*Wipes eyes*
Ahh...i laugh too much!
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| octocoffee |
| Posted: Jul 03, 2007 9:51 am |
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KerushiiAi wrote: It's especially fun if they're younger. It's mostly them who do it though. 'Cause they want to be "cool". It's kinda...hilarious in a pathetic sort of way. They're all like, talking about....let's just say "inappropriate" things...and thinking it makes them cool. But it's actually immature, annoying, and gross. And all the high schoolers laugh at them~
Yesh, I know exactly what you mean. Unfortunately, I'm at that age right now so all of my friends do talk and think like that. I hang out with the guys more often so there's less catfights and gossip (which I can't stand) but lots more inappropriate jokes. I can tolerate those more than gossip and arguments over boyfriends. But the high schoolers at my school kind of join in the weird gross humor. Is my school that immature??  |
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| KerushiiAi |
| Posted: Jul 05, 2007 3:43 pm |
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@ ame
Oh my gosh, I know what you mean. It's like, "Wow, if you really think you're so ugly, why are you trying to blind us with pics of yourself?" Of course, they're not usually ugly. But then again, they usually don't really think that they are. 
@ MishMish
Haha, I laugh a lot too. And you're welcome for making you laugh I guess. But I'm not to be held accountable for any brain cells that may have died from lack of oxygen to the brain.
@ octocoffee
Oh, well that sucks. When I was that age, it didn't seem like the world was so disturbed (or at least my middle school) and it was pretty much just the boys in my grade who were so immature. Actually, most of the boys are still like that. God, I hate the boys in my grade. But anyways, as long as you can stand it more than the drama the girls bring. Which is pretty understandable because...well, it's a very long story, but let's just say I'm so glad it's summer vacation. 
(And don't get me wrong, I still make some--ok, a lot--of inappropriate jokes, but they aren't quite so tasteless, and actually make people laugh instead of look at you like you have 2 heads. ) |
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| octocoffee |
| Posted: Jul 05, 2007 5:02 pm |
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Oh, joy, more years of idiocy... But I guess that sort of means more years of guys running into walls and stuff like that for my entertainment. Yay! Yeah, girl drama is probably the last thing I would want to think about over summer break. And I mean, innapropriate jokes can be really funny (surprisingly my mom out of all people has the funniest ones) but sometimes they're just crude and have no humor in them save for the fact that they used a naughty word. |
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| KerushiiAi |
| Posted: Jul 06, 2007 12:10 am |
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^ Haha, yeah, there's always that. Or in my case, the girls walking into walls too, lol. Yeah, girl drama does suck. Especially when you have "friends" who just seem to create drama because they're bored. So pretty much, I'm just glad to be outta there. Except there's next year...and ok, I feel a panic attack, so let's not think about that anymore.
*Breathing deeply*
Ok, I'm fine now.
Wow, your mom?! It just seems like it'd be a bit...awkward. 
And then there's like, when you walk in while someone's telling one, and you just hear them shout out this totally disgusting punchline, and you're all like, "Uhm, guys?" And then everyone stops laughing and turns to you, then they see your face and start laughing all over again. That's always fun~ |
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| octocoffee |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 3:24 pm |
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Why can't girls just have a nice old fistfight over something, then go get something to eat afterwards like the guys do? The girls at my school seem to hold extreme grudges and the boys will be mad for a day or so and then move on with their life. Seems to work well for them.
Yeah...My mom tells it to her friends in Vietnamese and she usually forgets that I'm much more proficient in the language than my sister is and she also doesn't notice I'm there until I start cracking up. |
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| Rinoa |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 4:51 pm |
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Girls can't have fistfights or talk in your face. Their personalities are usually aimed towards being feminine and discrete. I can't count the many times I got told to "accept it" or "not to raise my voice". Consequently many females hide their anger or jealousy and release that stress in other ways.
This also marks a sign of low self esteem. A person who can't come up to your face and tell you exactly what they truly think about you [and what they say about you behind your back] in your face are usually cowards. They are always together, no matter how much they backstab each other, because alone they have zero confidence.
I get to listen to so much gossip rubbish about people that sometimes I want to stand on a table and scream to people: "You think she's your best friend but she calls you a skank behind your back" or "You two are always so buddy buddy but she's just out to get your boyfriend". But I grew to ignore these people and I show them with my actions that they are not worth a millisecond of my time.
Seriously, I have no idea how some people manage to be friends with people who backstab them, speak against them behind their back and use them at their convenience. If any of my friends did that I would become so angry that I would go straight at them and give them a piece of my mind. I'm just a very direct and open person so I prefer to be with people who are honest and drama-free. |
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| KerushiiAi |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 5:33 pm |
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@ octocoffee
Yeah, Rinoa's right. Girls don't usually solve their problems with violence, they usually just go spread nasty rumors at whoever they're mad at, or just basically try to get revenge on them. And then of course, there's the old fashioned silence treatment.
Some may argue that guys' problems aren't as complicated, but really, I think girls blow their own problems way out of proportion, or they just take their verbal abuse on one another too far.  But guys and girls usually have different types of problems. Like, not too many guys have the problem of their best guy friend calling them a slut behind their back.
Haha, oh, I see. That's pretty funny 
@ Rinoa
You make a lot of good points. I agree with pretty much all that you said. Only, how would you know if your friend is calling you these things behind your back? Like you were saying that if any of your friends did that, you'd go tell them what's what. But, how would you know if they were saying bad stuff about you? I mean, other than being told by another person, and it coulda been interpreted wrong, or they coulda just lied about it to your face. You never know... |
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| Rinoa |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 6:43 pm |
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Yeah girls take things too seriously and too personally, maybe because they are more perceptive. While sometimes you're sending non-verbal signs that you're not interested in a guy, he probably won't get it until you clearly tell him you are not interested but my friend already senses this without me having to tell her. Thus a girl would sense if a joke is a polite way to insult her and a guy would probably be clueless.
Usually you get to know simply because of the statement "what comes around, goes around". When people spread malicious gossip with others, it is highly probable that these people are not trustworthy in the first place. Gossipers are usually people who talk too much and eventually you'll get to know who said what in a very short time. Furthermore if you are sharp you would notice if your friends' behavior and sense if something is going pretty wrong.
I'm a girl and I have gone through these kind of things so I'm rather perceptive. However most of my close friends are people who would not do these kind of things so I rarely have to bother about this stuff because we are always very open to each other. Other people whom I am not close to are not my problem and I usually don't care if they speak behind my back since I think a person who judges you from gossip is not a very intelligent person. |
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| octocoffee |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 7:22 pm |
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Wah...you guys are so...wah. Knowing and mature are the words that come to mind for now.
Yeah, I know it's female nature, I just wish it wasn't so. Bottling up your emotions isn't healthy. It creates a lot of stress. Kind of like that one episode of the Simpsons where Homer begins containing his anger and finally he explodes on everyone like the Hulk. Whenever I get angry or upset, I write in my journal or go play volleyball or Ultimate Frisbee. It's really helpful. But I don't get angry that much nowadays. If I do, I usually realize in a minute or so that my reason to be angry is really trivial and that whoever I'm angry at probably has a reason for doing whatever they did or maybe they just don't deserve me wasting any energy on them, depending on who they are. So the longest I've been angry recently is 15 minutes, really good compared to when I'd be mad for hours.
I never realized that girls who do that have low self-esteem, but it makes sense. You have to be sure of yourself and your capabilities to be able to go at something alone. Now I can see how this relates to the question all of my male friends ask me: "Why do girls always do everything together?"
I have been fortunate enough not to have met someone who has talked about me in negative ways behind my back but I've seen it happen to other people all the time. I'm just not the person that atracts those sorts of people, perhaps? I'm not sure what I would do if it did come up though. I'm not exactly a person that does confrontations, but I guess I'd have a one on one talk with them and try to keep the conversation at normal voice level.
Perception does seem like a factor in why girls are so serious about certain matters. I don't think I'm very perceptive about things like emotions and whatnot, seeing as I'm still unsure of my own feelings but sometimes there are signs and stuff that I find hard to miss while the guys just walk right on by and plow onward. Some girls use this perception to their own advantage or entertainment at my school. They might see some signs that so and so might have an interest in so and so and then spread rumors about them. It's stupid, frankly and they go on saying that everyone except them doesn't have a life when in reality, it's them. They are so bored that they have to make up idiotic litle lies to add something to their life. |
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| Egore |
| Posted: Jul 07, 2007 8:14 pm |
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It's very interesting to see that there are more things that piss people off than things that make them happy. I can't list one person in this forum that has written more about the things they like than the things they hate. And that's not necessarily a bad thing...it just shows that we are more capable of bringing up intense and strong feelings (like hate) rather than things that make us happy. I'm no exception...by any means.
That being said, I really hate it when you're dating a girl, and you're trying to hold a nice conversation, but all she does is shake and nod her head and gives you short answers. It drives me absolutely insane. I also hate it when people chew with their mouths open. I'm not sure why, but it has always bugged me. I can't stand it when people try to act cool but they look like fools. It's a weird combination of pity and anger. The last thing I really hate is people that look down on others, and push those people around because they're bigger than those other people are. Oh yeah, and I hate it when my sister fake cries...hehe.
I really love listening to music when I'm driving on some county highway in the afternoon when it's 60-some degrees outside (Farenheit obviously). That may sound stupid, but it's quite enjoyable. I love anime, and I've been watching a ton of it recently. And one last thing, I agree with AiAmBEST! =P. She said that "SMILY" made her instantly happy. That's kind of the way I tick as well. I put it on when I was driving one time, and I was on a sugar high and I started bouncing my head a little bit. My parents come up beside me in their car and just stare. Yeah, I never did that again, though I feel like doing it every time I listen to that song. |
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| Rinoa |
| Posted: Jul 08, 2007 4:07 am |
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octocoffee: Ha you're pretty mature yourself too But yeah bottling emotions is a very bad idea. It is why certain females get hysteric, paranoid and become emotionally confused at certain stages in their life. I am unable to keep anger bottled up so I'm always getting bursts of anger to release it. Consequently I have a really calm and laid back personality.
I suppose it is female nature, but it has roots in the specific place woman had to keep in society. In the past women could be seen and not heard and had so much less rights. So in order to survive women had to rely on their manipulative skills. This has changed but there are still certain ideas prevailing to be "feminine". Doing something on your own requires self confidence of your abilities. Guys seem to be more at ease to do this, while girls are more comfortable doing it together.
I've had my share of backstabbers in the past, especially in my teenage days so I am pretty perceptive of this stuff. When guys come in the picture you will notice how some girls will arrive at anything to appear in a good light simply to get the guy. Certain females are very insecure and so they get consumed by jealousy towards those whom they feel are a "threat" to their objective, may it be a job, a guy or a friend.
Egore: Ha yeah I know the feeling of dealing with someone who gives you absolutely no feedback Or else if you ask them if they would like to do or go anywhere they have no idea and expect you to make the decisions. |
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| Egore |
| Posted: Jul 08, 2007 5:44 am |
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さくらんぼ
Joined: 27 Jun 2007
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Location: West Lafayette Indiana
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Ok...Rinoa...that's just scary. After I had written that post, I immediately thought about how (in all my dating experiences) I was always the one making the decisions on where we were to go and what we were going to do. And I was going to edit my post to include the fact that I hated having to make all the decisions. I mean, I don't mind some, or even most, but ALL of them? Not cool...and yet another thing that I hate.
Oh yeah, and I hate mind-readers. (just kidding Rinoa) :lol: |
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